How Autism Presents Differently In Women

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a developmental disorder that affects social interaction, communication, and behavior.  Autism has traditionally been seen mostly in males.  This makes proper diagnosis for women more difficult. As a result, many women and girls on the spectrum often go unrecognized.  Women with autism tend to have other mental health issues which can make life difficult.   The autism diagnosis helps them understand why life is difficult and how to make things better.  The diagnosis can have a positive impact, helping their confidence and getting them the right help and advice.


Why Do Women Present Autism Differently than Men?

The phenomenon of women with autism having different symptoms than men is influenced by a combination of biological, social, and cultural factors.

  1. Biological Factors:  Research studies suggest there may be inherent biological differences in the ways that males and females experience autism. Genetic studies indicate that it might take a greater number of genetic mutations or a more severe genetic mutation for a girl to manifest the symptoms of autism, suggesting that females could be somewhat protected from developing ASD. This concept is known as the “female protective effect.”
  2. Socialization and Gender Expectations: Women and girls are often socialized differently than men and boys. They are typically encouraged from an early age to be more social and communicative, and societal expectations might lead them to develop better coping strategies for their social difficulties. This adaptation is often referred to as ‘masking’ or ‘camouflaging,’ where girls with autism mimic behaviors of neurotypical peers to fit in. This might cause their symptoms to be less apparent to others, leading to underdiagnosis or misdiagnosis.
  3. Diagnostic Criteria: Diagnostic criteria for autism have historically been based primarily on observations of males. Boys are typically diagnosed with autism much more frequently than girls, leading to a male-biased understanding of the condition. This has resulted in criteria that may overlook or misinterpret how autism presents in females. For example, girls may have more socially acceptable interests or obsessions, and their difficulties in social interactions may present as shyness or quietness.
  4. Co-occurring Conditions: Women with autism often have other conditions at the same time such as anxiety, depression, eating disorders, or ADHD that can mask their autism symptoms or complicate the diagnosis process.  They may get only diagnosed with one of those conditions while missing the autism.

Why do Women Have Difficulty Getting Diagnosed with Autism?

The difficulties women often face in obtaining an autism diagnosis can be attributed to a combination of factors such as gender biases in diagnostic criteria, social expectations, and the phenomenon of masking. Let’s delve into these factors more closely.

  1. Gender Bias in Diagnostic Criteria: The diagnostic criteria for Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) were developed based primarily on observations of boys, leading to a male-centric view of autism. This means that the signs of autism in girls and women—especially those who are high-functioning—may not match these traditional diagnostic criteria. They will be less obvious or may have differences that lead to missed recognition.


  2. Masking or Camouflaging: Women with autism often hide their symptoms in order to fit in with their peers. They might learn to imitate typical behavior that they see in others which will  mask their autistic traits. While this helps them socially, it also makes it harder for healthcare professionals to recognize their symptoms, resulting in incorrect diagnosis.


  3. Social Expectations: Societal norms can also play a role. Girls are often socialized to be more relational and communicative, which can lead them to develop coping mechanisms that conceal their social difficulties. Additionally, their interests or behaviors may align more closely with societal expectations for their gender, making their symptoms less obvious.

  4. Lack of Awareness and Understanding: There is a lack of understanding about how autism presents in women, even among medical and mental health professionals. This lack of knowledge can lead to misdiagnosis or women not being diagnosed at all.

7 Key Signs of Autism in Women

  1. Social Interaction Difficulties: Women with ASD may have a hard time navigating social landscapes. While they may seem highly social, they often struggle with understanding unspoken social cues, nuances of conversation, or maintaining friendships. The relationships they form often revolve around shared interests rather than emotional connections.


  2. Executive Function Limitations:  In women with autism, executive function problems can manifest in various ways, such as struggling to switch from one task to another, difficulty with time management, trouble organizing thoughts or tasks, and challenges in regulating emotions or behavior. It’s important to note, however, that not everyone with autism will experience difficulties with executive functioning, and the degree to which they are affected can vary greatly from person to person.


  3. Obsessive Interests and Hyperfocus: Women with autism often have one or two intense interests they hyperfocus on. While this can be true for both genders, girls and women often gravitate towards socially acceptable interests, such as books, animals, celebrities, or art, making this symptom easy to overlook.


  4. Sensory Sensitivity: People with ASD, including women, commonly experience sensory sensitivity or sensory processing disorder. They might be overly sensitive to sounds, smells, tastes, textures, or lights, which can often lead to discomfort or even pain in everyday environments.


  5. Issues with Change and Routine: Women with autism often rely heavily on routines and struggle with changes, no matter how minor. A sudden alteration in their plans or environment can lead to extreme stress and anxiety. Their attachment to routine is often misinterpreted as being rigid or stubborn.


  6. Emotional Regulation: Emotional regulation can be a challenge for many women with ASD. They may experience intense feelings and fail to manage them appropriately.  This might be mistaken for a mood disorder. 


  7. Physical Coordination Problems: Women with ASD often struggle with physical coordination and may appear clumsy or uncoordinated. This lack of motor coordination can affect their ability to perform tasks requiring fine motor skills and can lead to difficulty in sports or other physical activities.

Counseling Help in the Denver Area

Recognizing autism in women and girls can be challenging due to prevailing stereotypes and the tendency of women to mask their symptoms. It’s essential for society, and particularly for professionals in education and healthcare, to recognize these indicators to ensure earlier diagnosis and the implementation of effective support strategies. Remember that every individual with autism is unique, and these signs may present differently or not at all. A comprehensive understanding of autism in women is crucial to address the gap in diagnosis and support services. The journey towards inclusive understanding continues, promoting a world where every individual, irrespective of their neurotype, can feel understood and accepted.

If you are struggling with autism, know that you are not alone. We would like to help you start to feel better and get back to your life.

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